Dr. Michael Obsatz begins the video by saying “One of the things that people have a really hard time with is feeling like a failure. Like they did something, or they are a failure, or they did something that failed.
A way to combat that, especially during adolescence, is to realize that life is about experimenting, and trying things, and see what works and what doesn’t work. And not to be too hard on yourself when things don’t work perfectly.
It’s called Living in Process.  What it means is, I’m always changing, I’m always growing, I’m always learning, and I’m going to be out there in the world experimenting and see what works for me and what doesn’t work for me.”